WHAT TO DO WHEN A GIRL SAYS “I’M NOT LOOKING TO DATE ANYONE RIGHT NOW…”
Have you ever fancied a girl only to have asked her out and then got this response?…
“I think you’re great, but… erm… I’m not actually looking to date anyone right now… sorry”.
Man o’ man, that responds sucks balls.
But hey, sh*t happens. It’s life.
So how do you deal with this when it comes up?
Well let’s delve a little deeper and see why she might be saying that in the first place. Also how you can respond and maybe turn things around with that same girl.
WHY SHE’S SAYING THAT
She’s saying it because she doesn’t want to let you down in a harsh way. It’s her way of saying “Hell no fool… no way am I dating you”.
- You’re being too nice – You know exactly what being nice gets you… another friend! stop being overly nice and start being sexual, funny and manly.
- You’re not building enough attraction – Attraction comes from you building rapport, asking the right questions, saying what you believe in even if she doesn’t agree (breaking rapport) and kino. DO MORE OF THAT.
- You’re giving off the friend vibe – Do you listen to all of her problems? Hold her stuff for her? Smile while she bitches about her life? Yep, you’re a great friend. Stop doing this dude, you’re supposed to be a guy that she wants to jump into bed with, not the guy she wants to run to after she breaks up with another jerk.
- You’re “asking” for her permission – Don’t ask her if she wants to go on a date… assume it. What I mean is, you’re asking her to lead when you should be the one leading. If you’re not positioning yourself as a “high-value” male, then you won’t be dating her… simple.
YOUR RESPONSE
- Play it cool – Don’t even think about overreacting or looking like a sad little puppy. Just say “Cool, well listen… let’s at least stay in touch and grab a coffee sometime.. what’s your number?”
- Try and stay in touch – Most guys would just walk off in a huff and not pursue that particular girl in the future. WRONG! Get her number and meetup for a drink in the future, or at least stay in touch on Facebook and run some social proof game to make her think twice about saying no to you.
IN CONCLUSION
You need to switch up your game. There’s no way this type of response would ever happen if you were gaming girls properly and conveying a sexual manly personality that’s extremely attractive.
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