IS SHE INTO ME OR IS SHE JUST BEING NICE? HOW TO TELL IF A GIRL REALLY LIKES YOU

I’ve touched on this topic before because it’s so freakin common. But guys keep on asking it, so I’m gonna talk about it today.

The problem a lot of guys seem to be having is that they keep second guessing their interactions with women and are not 100% sold on the fact that the girl might be sexualy interested in them or if they are just being friendly.

It’s a reasonable thought and problem to have.

So…. how can you tell if she likes you then? And she’d not just being nice.

For example:

Say you go to Starbucks a lot (the same one every day) and you see the same girl working as a barrister there.

Cute little thing. You want to take her out, but you’re not reading the signs correctly.

When you go in, she greets you with a big smile… makes your coffee without you having to ask, asks how your day is going… initiates small talk etc.

So is she just being friendly or is she actually into you?

Well let’s see. Take a moment to run through the following questions and see for yourself if she likes you or not.

Note: These questions don’t have to just apply to the girl in Starbucks, they can also apply to a girl in a club, bar, office or any other type of situation.

If a girl initiates a conversation with you, there’s a very good chance that she’s digging you. Girls aren’t usually the conversation starters, it’s always the guy. So if she makes it a point to ask you more than one question about your day or yourself, work, likes, dislikes etc. Take that as green bro.

Let’s say the girl in Starbucks is serving someone else and you’re about to be served by the spotty 16 year old trainee kid. If she goes out of her way to make sure she serves you and not the kid, then she likes you. Any kind of effort to talk to you should be taken as a like.

If she’s just smiling at you and asking very generic questions, then you can put that down as friendliness. However if she’s keeping eye contact, touching her face, flicking her hair back and taking time to talk to you… then she’s interested.

So obviously this wouldn’t work on the girl at Starbucks because she’s behind the counter making your brew… so skip past this unless you’re in the office, bar etc. When you touch her.. how does she respond?

You can usually tell if a girl is uncomfortable with being touched. If she moves away every so slightly, crosses her legs, fakes a smile etc, then you should take that as a disinterested vibe.

But if she touches you back, continues to flirt and even moves closer towards you… GAME ON!

When you drop the casual assumptions like “Seriously, you’ve never been to JoJo’s pizza place? Oh man, I need to take you sometime” and she responds with “Yeah, totally we should do that”.

Then she likes you and has just accepted a low pressure hang out… “date”.